The Freedom to Change Your Mind

by Alex Okoroji

· The NAKED Weekly

One of the most empowering things I wrote in my book, Uncovered somewhere in Chapter 9.

Is the realisation that WE (in this case) or I..

"I have the right to change my mind"

If I'm empowered with new evidence, new information or something icky in a person's character that puts my decision into question - I will exercise my right to change my mind with no apologies, no explanations, no regrets (unless we have a work agreement, in that case - my integrity is important and I will never jeopardize it for anything).

And yes, that means I also understand if a person changes their mind too. I get it. No hard feelings. I want to believe they have made a decision that best serves them. So I choose to respect their right, as I expect them to respect my right.

For me, It's always WELL and good. I long since removed my attachment and dependence on things and people.

As a fluid person, I have learned to adapt to things I can't control.

If I have it, I have it. If I don't, no shaking. If you come, WELCOME. If you go, GOODBYE. Byeeeee. Lol.

Nothing is cast on stone. And nothing is DO or DIE.

That is the freedom we talk about. I hold nothing, and nobody bound.

I can make space for something, but I can also fill the gap with something else or someone else. I am a creative - and that means I have the abundance of imagination. Finding solutions is my forte. It is my superpower.

A creative always has unlimited options...and sees unlimited possibilities.

So - Not this time? Maybe, next time.👍🏽

Not YOU?...Then Maybe somebody else will.

Surely, I have expectations, but if they aren't met, my "next level mindset" is *solution focused*...

• Who or what will give me what I need to get there.
• How can I make this right?
• What do I need to DO to solve this problem?
• Who do I need to become - in order to fix this challenge, right NOW?

I don't have time to be squeezing a Square Peg in a Round Hole. And I never want to be that square peg forcing things to ▪︎BE▪︎. I also DO NOT have to cling to an old decision I made.

Don't cling to a decision just because you spent a long time making it.

Ask yourself...🤔

"If I knew then - what I know now, would I have made the same decision?".

If your answer is "No"...then move on!

Life is amazing when we give ourselves the FREEDOM to change our minds and adapt to positive change.😁

Happy Friday, Truth-Seekers,

To Your Greatness,🥂
Stay Authentic and Keep Winning!